THE LEGACY CODE
A 2-hour Workshop for Intentional Fathers
Start building the relationship your kids will remember forever.
BUY THE WORKSHOPThis might sting a little, but I have to ask it.
When your kids are grown and gone, sitting around their own dinner tables with their own families, what stories will they tell about you?
Will they talk about the father who was always present but never really there? The dad who provided everything they needed except the one thing they wanted most—your intentional investment in their hearts?
Or will they smile and say, "My dad? He knew me. Really knew me. He stepped into my world, guided my faith, and made me feel like I was worth his time."
The difference between these two futures isn't luck. It's not talent. It's not even how much time you have.
It's having a plan.
Children form their view of God, leadership, and their own worth primarily through their relationship with their father.
Right now, today, your children are watching. They're learning what strength looks like. What love looks like. What faithfulness looks like.
The question isn't whether you're influencing them. The question is what are you building?
What if you had a clear plan?
What if instead of winging it, hoping you're doing enough, praying you're not screwing them up too badly—what if you had a simple, biblical framework that showed you exactly how to:
Learn their unique wiring.
Empowering you to lead them in a way God designed them to be led.
Engage their world.
Incorporate your values and keep true to who you are in the process.
Guide their faith.
Nothing forced, nothing fake, and in ways that feel 100% natural.
Ask the right questions.
Opening their hearts instead of shutting them down, the right questions begin meaningful conversations they'll remember.
Create meaningful moments.
Memories are powerful and they hold weight, enough for your kids to tell their kids about one day.
Yes before no.
Connection is possible without becoming a permissive parent, and your "yes" is one of the most powerful tools to begin.
What You'll Walk Away With
Complete Tool Kit:
- Child Discovery Profile (know your kids like never before)
- Interest Engagement Planner (step into their world strategically)
- Faith Formation Framework (disciple them naturally)
- Question Bank (meaningful conversations by age group)
- Moment Maker Planner (create memories that last)
- Individual Investment Plan Template (your personalized roadmap)
Immediate Implementation:
- A concrete plan for each of your children
- Daily practices that take less than 5 minutes
- Weekly investments that require only 30 minutes
- Monthly moments that build lasting memories
Long-term Vision:
- Clarity on the legacy you're building
- Confidence in your role as their spiritual leader
- Connection that deepens as they grow older
"What If It's Too Late?"
Maybe your kids are teenagers and you feel like you've missed your chance.
Maybe you've been emotionally distant and don't know how to bridge the gap.
Maybe you're dealing with rebellion, resistance, or kids who seem to want nothing to do with you.
Listen to me: It's not too late.
God is in the business of redemption. Hearts can be healed. Relationships can be restored.
But it starts with you taking the first step.
The Investment Every Father Must Make
You'll invest hundreds of thousands of dollars in your children's education.
You'll spend countless hours driving them to practices, games, and activities.
You'll sacrifice sleep, money, and personal time to give them what they need.
But will you invest 2 hours to become the father they actually want?
The father they need?
The father God called you to be?
I believe your private and public life are the same. And the way you live each one affects the other.
In the 20 years I spent in pastoral leadership, I learned quickly that how I was as a husband, father, and leader were all deeply connected.
Now, as I coach and mentor people every day, write sermons and speak around the country, I'm certain that the mission I'm on is more important than ever - helping leaders reignite their joy, passion, and purpose in their personal and public lives.
The Steadfast Way came about after I realized that men in ministry are tired, they're at risk of compromise, and they struggle to simply show up.
My wife Ferris and I have 3 daughters we adore and are learning to navigate ministry and faith as we raise children with special needs like Cystic Fibrosis and Cerebral Palsy.
I'm deeply committed to helping you understand what it takes to courageously show up in your faith, marriage, family, and calling every day. And I'll help you build the rhythms and tools to get there.
